Grandma, 2005, by Norma Shubert

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Who: Norma Shubert
What: Death of my grandma 
When: 2005
Where: Heritiage House In Seymour

Grandma Norma Shubert

My life is usually described as boring and unentertaining; I would describe it as very fun! I actually don’t know what makes my life so fun. I guess it’s my parents. My parents are very exciting. Here lately my life has been so tragic. I mean with my grandmas death and everything. It’s been basically horrible. My grandma died in a nursing home because they would take care of her. My mom was a nurse for like 20 years and she went to work at the nursing home that my grandma was in and she found out that nobody was taking care of him. So my mom would go to the other side of the nursing home just to take of her. But when my mom quiet my grandma was not being taken care of. My mom quiet because she couldn’t handle the people that she was working with. They would treat her like she didn’t know how to do her job. They would tell what to do and when to do it. But about a month or 2 later my grandma and grandpa (my dads’ mom and dad) got a call that my grandma Norma had died in her bed. But they said how she died but I totally forgot what they had said. My mom came home and told my dad and I that my grandma was not being taken campy grandma was not being taken care. Of course I asked how, and my mom said that they would let her lie in her own pee and poop. I was so mad that I just stated crying. I loved my grandma so much. But we took it day by day we gradually got over it. I don’t know how we did it because my grandma was my life. I loved her so much, even though I didn’t get to see her that much I still love each and every one of my grandmas. The main person that took it hard was my grandma Shubert (her daughter). Because they were even close than what I was to her. But I don’t care. That’s my memoir of my life. I was really worried about her. I don’t know why somebody would let her stay like that. When ever my mom wasn’t there, I’m sure she was being much abused. I mean they would be mad to if their grandma, they would be mad at that to. So why would someone do that us, the nursing home should’ve been sewed but they weren’t. I don’t understand why my grandparents didn’t. If it was my dads or moms, Mom and dad, I am sure that my parents would’ve sewed them. At least my parents would sew the company that is. I didn’t get to go to her funeral because my grandma never told me or my parents about it. So we didn’t know when the showing was going to be, so we didn’t get to go. I really miss her. Now she is in a good place and she is probably very happy there.